Inspiration to help you find your own way
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Inspiration to help you find your own way
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I was in a session, exploring the story and beliefs I hold on to about "masculine energy and how the men in my life show up". The story I was telling about myself and my partner was particularly persistent. And when its told I feel unsupported, closed off and unloved. But for many reasons, the story is difficult to resist.
You may be confused. What do I mean by story? And how do I tell a story about myself and someone else that leaves me feeling so bad? The stories about ourselves and others often center around developmental life experiences with the men and woman who cared for us and had a hand in shaping our perspectives about ourselves and other. We internalized these stories and add meaning. They become our root stories about love and form our core relationship beliefs. And subconsciously we look for the evidence of their truth in our closest relationship(s) through all stages of intimacy. And what we expect or look for we will always find! The meaning can be positive or negative. Some of the negative ones that I had were:
We all have root stories and core beliefs about ourselves and others and many are supportive. But when the detrimental ones are so strong that they're hard to resist we can benefit from some broader perspective. And in my case, compassion too as I am very hard on myself. It was helpful for me to speak to my coach, he challenged me to question the root of my story, my core beliefs and how they were limiting my ability to experience the deeper connection and support I was craving from myself, with my partner, and all masculine energy in my life. He asked me if my story was aligned with my deepest desires and intentions to grow and pleasurably expand in my relationship to my beloved? No! My story was competing with my deepest desire to liberate myself from sexual inhibitions, self-judgment and childhood conditioning with my beloved. He invited me further to explore why I wanted to liberate myself. I remembered, I have a burning desire to know myself fully expressed, full of untamed wild potential and joy! This was challenging work for me as I had to accept that I had unhelpful stories and beliefs and they were limiting the potential of my relationship bliss. This was all on me and had nothing to do with partner! My partner knew of my desires and was doing his best in becoming the man he wanted to be in growth and pleasurable expansion. That's his work! My work was to be opening into the fully expressed woman that I desired to be and in this case writing new stories about the masculine energy that aligned with my untamed wild potential and joy in relationship with my Beloved! <3 So, I ask you:
Email me now! Let's identify what's getting in the way of Love and get you on a path to enduring bliss! Couples and Singles welcomed! To Your Enduring Love and Bliss! Cheryl
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